You know what you need?
You need discipline and training from a superior Woman.
I am Mistress Raven, a superior Woman. As such I am inclined to know better than you and so you will follow My rules when in My presence. You will assume the position I describe. You will address me properly. You will be collared, tormented, and trained and I will use you according to My whim. You will be My toy, My slave, or My pet as My moods strike. I will experiment on you. I will make you perform to entertain me. I would demand excellence from you, but as you are inferior, you aren't likely to impress me. If you do manage to impress or amuse Me, you will be rewarded: perhaps you will be allowed to serve as My foot rest, or granted the privilege or worshiping my beautiful feet. If you fail to please Me, I may punish you.
It's that simple.